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Book Brief: Now, Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham & Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D.

Friday, February 4th, 2011

Book Number 4 on my Book-a-Week list for 201 – NOW, Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham & Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D.

 

I’ve read many parts of this book previously, particularly the opening chapters and the chapters that describe my five core talents, but this time I read it cover to cover. Given my passion for helping others fully maximize their strengths, and the work I do related to this passion on a daily basis, this was a perfect and timely read.

The book includes access to a one-time use code that allows you to take the Gallup Strengths Finder assessment on-line. I use this assessment frequently with my clients. In fact, I’ll be completing a facilitator certification this month through Core Clarity, Inc. that is centered around maximizing the use of the Strengths Finder tool with individuals and organizations.

Upon completing the assessment on-line, you receive a list of your top 5 talents (not actually strengths because strengths are built upon our core talents through applying knowledge, skills and desire) and their definitions. That’s it. And while that list of 5 talents and their definitions can be very enlightening, there is much more to be learned about how to maximize those talents than the assessment report provides. This is why I am pursuing the Core Clarity training. I have seen first hand on numerous occasions how powerful it can be to leverage talents to their fullest.

The book’s primary message is this: the surest way to have success in life is to understand fully what your hard-wired talents are, build them into strengths, and  organize your life around the maximum use of them. By the way, a “talent” is defined as a recurring pattern of thoughts, feelings or behaviors that can be productively applied. For a talent to become a strength, it must be combined with knowledge, skills and ongoing use. A strength can be further defined as consistent, near perfect performance in an activity you love doing. 

Decades of research, including over two million interviews of top performers in all fields, led to the creation of the Strengths Finder tool, and what the Gallup organization calls the “strengths revolution.” Clifton and Buckingham, creators of the assessment tool, originally sought a list of “success strengths” that they could advise people to acquire, or that they could use to hire the “best” people. But their research found there is no such list. Any set of talents can lead to success, as long as they are recognized and maximized in the individual. What an amazing and liberating finding for most of us, who, prompted by the world’s misguided attempts to help us improve, have tended our whole lives to focus on improving our weaknesses rather than maximizing our strengths. Trying to fix weaknesses in most cases only leads to small improvements. While we must “manage” our weaknesses to avoid derailing our careers and our relationships, assuming we can fix them, and that fixing them will give us the most success, is misguided at best and demoralizing at worst.

Not only is it critical to understand and leverage your own talents, understanding the talents of those you work with and care about is incredibly eye-opening and helpful as well. The knowledge gained through completing the Strengths Finder assessment in a team setting can exponentially increase productivity and job satisfaction by giving people permission to make sure they are working in their strengths as often as possible. And the insights gained when couples complete the assessment can clear up years of misunderstanding and struggle.

Read the book, complete the assessment, learn about your talents and strengths, and start making sure you are building your lives upon them. If you’d like my help with any of this, let me know. I would love to help you.

Click here to order a copy of the book.

Reasons Why YOU ROCK is a Great Holiday Gift!

Tuesday, October 26th, 2010

Do you have a lot of people on your holiday gift list? Do you buy for clients, teachers, friends, service providers and multiple relatives?

If you want a unique way to make these people feel appreciated, skip the gift card or the blanket with sleeves, and give them Reasons Why YOU ROCK! This book is not only an inspirational read filled with moving stories and quotes, it is a process, a guided journal that leads you to discover and celebrate your own unique greatness. When you give it as a gift, you can include your own special message about why the person rocks in any or all of the chapters. Best of all, the book is a permanent reminder to the recipient of why they are great, available to review any time a boost of confidence or inspiration is needed.

Each chapter of the book features a different way a person can “ROCK,” from your talents to your friendships to your work to the compliments you’ve received, and much more. Here is what best-selling authors have to say about Reasons Why YOU ROCK!:

“When you fully realize the unique greatness in you, you will give yourself permission to pursue your most treasured dreams. Kathy Light’s Reasons Why YOU ROCK! is an enriching and inspiring guide to lead you in the journey to realizing your greatness. Take the journey, and start dreaming BIG!”

Marcia Wieder, Founder and President of the world-renowned Dream University, Jack Canfield’s personal success coach, and best-selling author of Making Your Dreams Come True!

“A heart filled with gratitude brings life-changing blessings. And recognizing the beauty of our own gifts begins with a heart full of gratitude. Kathy Light has created an inspiring guide to help you realize your own greatness and begin to fully use those gifts for your own good and the good of others.”

Mary Jane Ryan, best-selling author, Attitudes of Gratitude and A Grateful Heart

Kathy has given each of us a reason to look both within ourselves and outside to our friends/clients….and find all the reasons why "we rock." In a negative world, we all need ways to own our own worth. That’s what Kathy’s book does. It’s an easy and enjoyable read.”

Valerie Sokolosky, best-selling author of Monday Morning Leadership for Women

Special Holiday Pricing Promotion for Multiple Copies of Reasons Why YOU ROCK! At these prices, you can buy a copy for everyone on your list!

  • First book: Retail price of $20*
  • Second through fifth books: only $15 each!*
  • Sixth book and beyond: only $10 each!!*

*price does not include shipping and handling

To purchase, visit www.kathylight.com/products

Note: Book is also available on amazon.com, but discounts do not apply through amazon.

The Power of Realizing the Reasons Why YOU ROCK!

Sunday, September 26th, 2010

I had lunch with an amazing new friend this week. She shared with me that every year she keeps a journal of key reflections on the year. Up until now, she has started her journal with her goals for the year and then periodically recorded progress throughout the year. Her last journal entry of the year has been an overall assessment of how she did in reaching her goals during the year and what she wants to focus on for the next year.

While that process has been helpful to her and instrumental to her very successful career, she told me that this year she is starting a new kind of journal. Based on the inspiration she received when attending one of my Reasons Why YOU ROCK! sessions, she is now only recording Reasons Why She Rocks in her journal, and using her Reasons Why YOU ROCK! book as the journal. She shared that the power of this exercise has been tremendous. The Reasons Why She Rocks serve as a way to inspire her and give her courage when it’s needed. Like a very difficult message she had to deliver recently. Before the encounter, she reviewed her journal. Reminding herself of Why She Rocks gave her the courage to have the conversation in a  way that resulted in a positive outcome for both her and the person receiving the message.

One of the participants at my most recent Reasons Why YOU ROCK! workshop on September 18th had also attended my previous workshop in July. In July she brought her mom, and in September she brought a good friend of hers. When I saw her in September, she told me that the experience for her mom was life-changing, and that they are now having Reasons Why YOU ROCK! conversations every month, working through one chapter each month. The experience of focusing on what is great about her is giving the woman’s mom a whole new confidence she has never had before.

I am so grateful for the opportunity to do this work. Each time I deliver a presentation or a workshop many women tell me how much they needed to hear the message. We ALL need to hear the message, over and over again. When we know why we rock, we deliver our greatness to the world with no holding back, and that is a very generous gift!

 

I’m really looking forward to all the speaking engagements I have in October and November, and especially looking forward to my Reasons Why YOU ROCK! retreat for women November 5th – 7th. www.kathylight.com/retreats

Reasons Why YOU ROCK!

Friday, July 16th, 2010

One of my favorite quotes is from Marianne Williamson who wrote A Return to Love. She said, “You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that others don’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is in us. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others.”

This quote is the fundamental philosophy behind my new book, Reasons Why YOU ROCK! and my workshops of the same name. Most people spend a great deal of time focused on their mistakes and shortcomings rather than what they’ve done right and what is great about them, and 75% of the self-talk of most people is negative. All this self-doubt and negative thinking keeps us from being who we were born to be, and from shining our light to brighten the world around us.

To make a difference, to live our purpose, and to truly be happy, we must focus on what’s right – what we are grateful for, what is good about our lives and the world around us, and yes, what is great about us personally, or as my book title suggests, why we ROCK!

Focusing on your greatness leads you to act in truly great ways, and to help others see the greatness in them, too. It’s not selfish or egotistical to do this, it’s absolutely essential for the betterment of humankind. What better gift to give to the world than to be so clear about why you rock that you can give 100% of who you are to the world every day, unencumbered by fear and self-doubt?

So go ahead and give yourself permission to answer the question: Why do YOU ROCK? I’d love to know your answers!