Book Brief: Turbo Growth by Travis Ray Chaney

February 3rd, 2011

Book Number 3 on my Book-a-Week list for 2011 – Turbo Growth by Travis Chaney

 

Travis Chaney totally ROCKS! His work is amazing. His book is amazing. I have had the pleasure of getting to know Travis personally over the last few months, and each time we talk, he impresses me more with his knowledge, his leadership, his incredible results, his giant heart, and his undying passion for helping financial advisors achieve their dreams.

Travis’ mantra is “Be bullish on life!” and that describes Travis to the core.

In the opening pages of the book, Travis describes how to use it as a “playbook” and how throughout the book he will help you shift your thinking from trying to make money to adding value to the lives of the people you work with. And isn’t that what we all want? For our lives to have meaning and our work to add value to others? Of course, we also want to make money. Travis’ book describes how in the process of truly understanding what it means to add value to people’s lives in your own authentic way, you will also figure out how to make more money than you’ve ever made before. And he has years of results with many highly successful clients to prove it.

The book is very easy to read and absorb because of the way Travis organized the themes in each chapter: Core Concepts, Turbo Growth Moments, Mind the Mindset, Drew to the Rescue!, The Turbo Growth Training Guide, and at the end of the book, a “Ten Minute Turbo Growth Refresher Course” summarizing all the key concepts in the book. Each chapter also includes the continuing saga of “Andy the Advisor”, a struggling advisor who makes many of the common mistakes Travis sees in the clients he coaches. Andy’s character is so true-to-life that you really feel his pain, and I almost immediately found myself wanting to shout words of encouragement and advice to him. I looked forward to each chapter, in large part to find out what Andy was up to and whether he could figure out how to turn his life around!

Travis’ wisdom and practical exercises throughout the book make it a must read for every financial advisor, no matter what their experience or level of success in the career. And even if you aren’t a financial advisor, but simply want to raise the level of your game – and who doesn’t? – you will find this book extraordinarily inspiring.

In the words of Siskel and Ebert, I give this book two thumbs way, way UP!!

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Book Brief: The Gift in YOU by Caroline Leaf

February 2nd, 2011

Book Number 2 on my Book-a-Week list for 2011 – The Gift in You by Caroline Leaf

 

Dr. Caroline Leaf has masterfully combined four of my passions in this lovely book – leveraging gifts, the study of the brain (neuroscience), emotional intelligence, and spirituality. Throughout the book, she includes concepts that link brain science to scripture. Her purpose in writing the book is to help us realize the link between brain science and our divine purpose. Her years of research on brain science make this a very interesting read for anyone who is looking to leverage their gifts, and especially those in the business of leading and coaching others to do so, like me.

Leaf uses the Seven Pillars of Thinking model, which you may be familiar with if you ever read the classic book, 7 Kinds of Smart by Thomas Armstrong, first published in 1993. These seven pillars or seven types of intelligence include:

  1. Intrapersonal
  2. Interpersonal
  3. Linguistic
  4. Logical/mathematical
  5. Kinesthetic
  6. Musical
  7. Visual/spatial

Dr. Leaf has designed a Gift Profile, an inventory to help you determine which of these intelligences are dominant for you. The profile is a simple pencil and paper inventory that is included in the text of the book. We all use all of the seven, but it is our dominant styles that guide our thinking (and therefore our emotions and our actions) the most. Learning more about our dominant styles can help us better understand ourselves, better leverage our gifts, and better understand others as well.

An interesting and inspiring read.

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Book Brief: The Power of Who by Bob Beaudine

February 2nd, 2011

Book Number 1 on my Book-a-Week list for 2011 – The Power of Who by Bob Beaudine

 

Bob Beaudine is President and CEO of Eastman and Beaudine, an executive search firm in the Dallas area geared towards sports and entertainment. Beaudine’s book promo video states his message perfectly, “You’ve got WHO!” So many of us spend so much time trying to cultivate new relationships that will get us the next client or the next job. We join clubs, attend networking meetings and schedule 1:1s with people, forgetting that the most important relationships are the ones we already have! The people who will help us most are the people who know us best and care the most about us. He shares a big personal realization that prompted him to write his book: He did an analysis of the connections that helped him get business over a ten year period.  Of 5,100 connections in his database, he got ten years of business from only 87 of them!

I haven’t yet done this type of analysis of my business, and I don’t have nearly the number of contacts in my database that Beaudine has, but I suspect an analysis of where my clients have come from would yield similar findings. And what his book made me realize is that I want to do an even better job cultivating those professional and personal relationships that mean the most to me. Asking how I can help those people, asking what is important to them, connecting them with people they can help and who can help them, sharing my vision and goals with them so they know how to connect me. That sounds a lot more fun than racing around trying to attend every possible meeting I can to connect with new people. Not that I don’t believe in networking; it’s an important part of building a business. But whatever the method of connecting, it needs to be purposeful to make a difference in my business. And I plan to make all my connecting more purposeful this year.

Great book, easy read, and while in many ways a “one message” book, it is still worth the read for all the great stories and reinforcement Beaudine shares. I highly recommend it!

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A Book a Week!

February 1st, 2011

If you read my January newsletter, you know that I have set a goal to read a book a week in 2011. Four weeks in and so far I’m meeting the goal! This is such an energizing goal for me as I really love to read and learn. Last year was very filled with writing and publishing my book and speaking opportunities centered around promoting it, that I didn’t make time to read as I typically do. I realized during my end-of-year reflection that I really missed regular reading and the inspiration it brings.

I sort of feel like “Julie” of Julie and Julia, who set a goal to cook all of Julia Child’s recipes in a year. I’m excited about the challenge and what I’ll learn in the process, eager to share what I will learn, and a little nervous about the pressure I’m putting on myself to reach this goal. Thanks to Bob Beaudine, author of The Power of Who – the first book I read this year – for giving me the idea to read a book a week.

If you’re wondering how I’m having the time to do this, it’s not as hard as it sounds. I’ve often shared with my clients and speaking audiences that reading ten minutes a day will result in reading a book a month. That insight came to me from a book – no surprise! – by David Cottrell called Monday Morning Leadership. If you don’t believe me, think about it. Most books have about 200 pages. If you read ten minutes a day, you are reading about 8-10 pages, and if you read every day, even just week days, you will read about 200 pages a month. So if you read about 40 minutes a day, you can read a book a week.

Here’s how I’m doing it: My morning exercise routine includes twenty minutes on the recumbent bike, which leaves my hands free to read. Over lunch, which, since I work out of my house, is usually at the kitchen table between client calls, I read another ten minutes. In the evening I read another ten, and there’s my forty.

Titles I’ve completed so far, four weeks into the new year, include:

  • The Power of Who by Bob Beaudine
  • The Gift in You by Caroline Leaf
  • Turbo Growth by Travis Chaney
  • Now Discover Your Strengths by Donald O. Clifton and Marcus Buckingham (a book I’d read in pieces before but thoroughly enjoyed re-reading cover to cover, especially given my Reason Why YOU ROCK! passion which ties directly to my mission of Inspiring Leaders to Realize Their Greatness).

Additionally, I’ve finished a couple of books I started reading last year:

  • The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein (a terrific novel written in the voice of a dog, which was great especially given our new status as dog-owners)
  • The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, which is one of the most impactful spiritual guides I have ever read, and which I will start reading again next week. I find it to be very helpful to read a few pages of this every day.

I’ll be writing short blogs about all of the books, to help me capture what I learned, and, I hope, to spark interest in my readers in a book that may inspire them as it has inspired me.

Here’s to joyful reading!

My 2011 goal to read a book a week!

January 24th, 2011

If you read my January newsletter, you’ll know that I’m attempting to read a book a week this year. Third week of the year and so far I’m on track, which feels great! If you count the two books I also finished that I had already started, I’m actually up to five for the year. It’s really fun and enlightening to be reading this much, and I’m looking forward to posting some book briefs – not real reviews because I don’t plan to summarize the whole book. Just want to share some of the key insights that were meaningful to me. Stay tuned…

Reasons Why YOU ROCK is a Great Holiday Gift!

October 26th, 2010

Do you have a lot of people on your holiday gift list? Do you buy for clients, teachers, friends, service providers and multiple relatives?

If you want a unique way to make these people feel appreciated, skip the gift card or the blanket with sleeves, and give them Reasons Why YOU ROCK! This book is not only an inspirational read filled with moving stories and quotes, it is a process, a guided journal that leads you to discover and celebrate your own unique greatness. When you give it as a gift, you can include your own special message about why the person rocks in any or all of the chapters. Best of all, the book is a permanent reminder to the recipient of why they are great, available to review any time a boost of confidence or inspiration is needed.

Each chapter of the book features a different way a person can “ROCK,” from your talents to your friendships to your work to the compliments you’ve received, and much more. Here is what best-selling authors have to say about Reasons Why YOU ROCK!:

“When you fully realize the unique greatness in you, you will give yourself permission to pursue your most treasured dreams. Kathy Light’s Reasons Why YOU ROCK! is an enriching and inspiring guide to lead you in the journey to realizing your greatness. Take the journey, and start dreaming BIG!”

Marcia Wieder, Founder and President of the world-renowned Dream University, Jack Canfield’s personal success coach, and best-selling author of Making Your Dreams Come True!

“A heart filled with gratitude brings life-changing blessings. And recognizing the beauty of our own gifts begins with a heart full of gratitude. Kathy Light has created an inspiring guide to help you realize your own greatness and begin to fully use those gifts for your own good and the good of others.”

Mary Jane Ryan, best-selling author, Attitudes of Gratitude and A Grateful Heart

Kathy has given each of us a reason to look both within ourselves and outside to our friends/clients….and find all the reasons why "we rock." In a negative world, we all need ways to own our own worth. That’s what Kathy’s book does. It’s an easy and enjoyable read.”

Valerie Sokolosky, best-selling author of Monday Morning Leadership for Women

Special Holiday Pricing Promotion for Multiple Copies of Reasons Why YOU ROCK! At these prices, you can buy a copy for everyone on your list!

  • First book: Retail price of $20*
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The Power of Realizing the Reasons Why YOU ROCK!

September 26th, 2010

I had lunch with an amazing new friend this week. She shared with me that every year she keeps a journal of key reflections on the year. Up until now, she has started her journal with her goals for the year and then periodically recorded progress throughout the year. Her last journal entry of the year has been an overall assessment of how she did in reaching her goals during the year and what she wants to focus on for the next year.

While that process has been helpful to her and instrumental to her very successful career, she told me that this year she is starting a new kind of journal. Based on the inspiration she received when attending one of my Reasons Why YOU ROCK! sessions, she is now only recording Reasons Why She Rocks in her journal, and using her Reasons Why YOU ROCK! book as the journal. She shared that the power of this exercise has been tremendous. The Reasons Why She Rocks serve as a way to inspire her and give her courage when it’s needed. Like a very difficult message she had to deliver recently. Before the encounter, she reviewed her journal. Reminding herself of Why She Rocks gave her the courage to have the conversation in a  way that resulted in a positive outcome for both her and the person receiving the message.

One of the participants at my most recent Reasons Why YOU ROCK! workshop on September 18th had also attended my previous workshop in July. In July she brought her mom, and in September she brought a good friend of hers. When I saw her in September, she told me that the experience for her mom was life-changing, and that they are now having Reasons Why YOU ROCK! conversations every month, working through one chapter each month. The experience of focusing on what is great about her is giving the woman’s mom a whole new confidence she has never had before.

I am so grateful for the opportunity to do this work. Each time I deliver a presentation or a workshop many women tell me how much they needed to hear the message. We ALL need to hear the message, over and over again. When we know why we rock, we deliver our greatness to the world with no holding back, and that is a very generous gift!

 

I’m really looking forward to all the speaking engagements I have in October and November, and especially looking forward to my Reasons Why YOU ROCK! retreat for women November 5th – 7th. www.kathylight.com/retreats

Lessons from My Dog

July 31st, 2010

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We got our first family dog yesterday. That’s her in the photo. Her name is Charlie, and we’re certain she’s the best dog ever. She’s beautiful, she’s gentle, she’s happy, she’s calm inside the house and playful in the yard, and she doesn’t bark. Yes, you read that right. A rescued animal we adopted from the shelter, and she doesn’t bark. Best dog ever.

Getting a dog was a big step for our family, especially for me. Our son is 14 and our daughter is 10, and they’ve been asking for a dog for years. “Come on, Mom, your clients won’t care if they hear a dog barking. Come on, Mom, we promise we’ll take care of her. Come on, Mom, we really want a dog!” So this summer I finally started warming up to the idea, and we promised them that if they would show good responsibility for 8 weeks in a row, we would start looking. For a female dog, about 2 years old, with a calm disposition, not too big, and not a barker. So last week was our week to start looking, and suddenly I found myself not just eager to find the perfect dog, but missing her before we found her, like she’d been on a vacation or something and we were ready for her to come home.

Friday afternoon about 5:00 we visited the local animal shelter. Our son had been hoping to talk us into a puppy, since they are so cute, but then he saw Charlie. He fell in love first, and the rest of us quickly followed.

We’ve had Charlie 24 hours, and already she’s a beloved member of the family, and a very wise teacher. Here are the lessons she has taught me so far:

Lesson #1: Trust your heart, not your nose. When we got our time alone with Charlie in the visitation room, she was dirty and smelled awful. She’d only been rescued a week ago, and with 60 dogs to provide for and a small staff, the shelter could only take care of the absolute necessities. And that left no time for a bath. But she looked at us with loving eyes, and offered her belly to rub, and our hearts told us she was the one. The longer we spent with her, the less we noticed the dirt and the smell, and the wider our hearts opened.

Lesson #2: Take a nap when you’re tired. If you do, you wake up feeling happy and refreshed and energetic. Need I say more?

Lesson #3: Only bark when your most important priority is at stake. We found out today that Charlie can bark. Not when the doorbell rang or another dog walked by. Not because someone tried to pull her to the left when she wanted to go to the right. Not because she was hungry or needed to go outside – she cries softly when she needs those things. It was her new rawhide bone. Joe tried to take it from her, and she let out a loud “WOOF!” that startled and amused us all. We can make a lot of requests of her, like asking her to “Sit!” and “Shake!” about a hundred times in one day, and she’s as calm and happy as ever. But try to take her bone, and she barks. She’s got her priorities straight. The girl knows what she wants, and she doesn’t worry about anything else.

These lessons are great reminders for me. Maybe for you, too.

Best wishes,

Kathy

Live Your Values, Live Your Dreams

July 19th, 2010

It’s Sunday evening. I’m looking back on the past week and planning for the next one. I’m feeling really good about last week from the perspective of living my values and the values of our family. And it’s good to reflect on this, since I don’t always feel that way at the end of the week! My top five core values are Family Happiness, Personal Development, Spirituality, Passion and Helpfulness. Each of them was honored this week in ways I am proud of.

Our trip to the Texas coast and the time Roger and I both spent in play and conversation with the kids were great ways to live the Family Happiness value. Personal Development earned lots of points for me this week because I attended the eWomen Conference here in Dallas. Amazing experience, and absolutely phenomenal speakers, including Lisa Nichols, Marcia Weider, and Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos. I made lots of new friends and business contacts, and I have dozens of ideas I would like to implement that I picked up through the experience. I’m organizing a couple of group calls with some of the women who also attended so we can  hold each other accountable to the action steps from the conference. Spirituality felt good this week, too, because of meditation and church and a lovely solo I got to sing this morning, and gazing at the ocean for two days. My Passion was honored this week through my interactions with others at the eWomen conference. I spoke passionately about my work, my book, and my Reasons Why YOU ROCK! workshop coming up on Saturday. Without even trying, I sold several books to women who, through informal conversation, were drawn to the story I shared about how the book was created and my vision for the book and its message. My Helpfulness value was pretty well aligned, too, through time scheduled to provide feedback to others, books purchased as gifts that I know will help others, and offering to help hold other women accountable to our conference follow-up through scheduling the group calls I mentioned.

All in all, a great week, and one I’ll want to remember the next time I have a tough one. Like I say in Reasons Why YOU ROCK!, it’s really important to remind ourselves of all the good we do, because we all have a tendency to beat ourselves up for our perceived mistakes and failings. I’m glad I’ve recorded the successes of this week here in my blog because it will be easier for me to review them and get back into this positive feeling when I read about them later.

How about you? What can you feel proud about this week? In what ways did you live your core values?

Speaking of living your values, check out this YouTube video clip from a recent webinar presentation I led called “Live Your Values, Live Your Dreams.”  The webinar was part of series called Reaping Professional Success. Other speakers included best-selling authors Dan Ariely and Susan Fowler, and five other very impressive experts. It was an honor to be part of this expert panel. Let me know what you think of the clip.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow8RLnHC73c

Here’s wishing you a week of living your values!

Two Days at the Beach

July 16th, 2010

This week we took the kids to the Texas coast for a few days to play at the beach with their cousins. It was perfect beach weather – 92 and sunny, with lots of wind to make good-sized waves in the shallow water. No panicked parents worrying the kids would drift too far out to sea, because they had plenty to do near the shore.

The cousins are triplets – two boys and a girl, age 10, the same age as our daughter and four years younger than our son. They idolize their teenaged cousin, and loved his piggy back rides and wave jumping tricks. I don’t think any of the kids appreciate yet the miraculous vastness of the ocean. But they do appreciate its capacity to thrill, and they took full advantage of it.

The two girls spent hours making sand castles. Each day the boys challenged them to a best sand castle contest, but quickly lost interest and opted to wrestle in the waves instead. The girls built complicated sand walls and moats and turrets and swimming pools and play areas, and invited a few Polly Pocket dolls to try out the fun. The best part for the boys was castle demolition at the end of the day.

Just a few hours and just a few days, but great summer memories, and stories they’ll be telling for a long time.